It takes a lot of time to completely love someone. Love is never an overnight thing. There is the existence of that battle in between making the move and wondering what may happen if at all you do make the move. Well, that will take you a lot of time if you cannot really initiate love and set literally everything in motion through a word of mouth.
How well express yourself and how well the words of your thoughts leave your mouth determines, on a large, whether you are in it or just taking part in a battle which you are bound to lose anyway.
While it is true that love is more of action and what is seen rather than what is said, it is also true that talking plays a big part in effecting it. Here is how.
1. Start with small conversations
For a start, make sure you are expressing yourself extremely well in the ‘small’ conversations that you have. Talk about that awkward situation you were in not long ago and tell her or him how you managed to bail yourself out. Make sure that you string all your conversations to the end and not leaving some of them hanging and raising possible questions. Be smart.
It is all up to you to flirt in a smart way. It is not wrong at all. Just give them hints of your interest and make sure they notice that you indeed are interested in them. Just make sure it is not unrealistic.
3. Have a sense of humor
Try being funny, even if you have never been. Make sure they are happy and have that smile on when around you. Take part in their jokes and laugh when they make them. If you can perfect on that, they will surely want to be at your side longer than should possibly be the case.